Mindfulness
Our minds are so busy wondering with worry and anxiety about the future or anger and resentment about the past. In fact, research conducted by Matt Killingsworth in his Track Your Happiness project, (where he’s collected over 650,000 responses from people about how they are feeling, what they were doing and about their mind wandering; using cellphones), showed that our mind wanders about 47% of the time! His project also showed that when our minds wander, we tend to be less happy and that it was the mind-wandering itself that led to unhappy feelings. So then, it would make sense that practicing being present and focused on the task at hand would help increase our happiness. But how do we do that? Enter: Mindfulness.
What it IS
Mindfulness is the nonjudgmental awareness of the present moment: noticing what is happening within us (feelings, thoughts emotions sensations) and what is happening around us in our environment. That means not thinking about our past regrets or frustrations and not being caught up in the worry, anxiety and fear of the future. We are present right here, right now; experiencing this moment for all that it encompasses. We are taking in the good, the bad, the happy, the sad without judgement and just letting those emotions and thoughts sit with us. It is difficult to explain mindfulness because everyone will experience it differently. The best way to know it then is to experience it
So mindfulness is a practice of awareness of being in this moment and not judging or evaluating it or taking snaps shots for Instagram! And with that awareness, you may begin to have many insights about your life, that may then lead you to make different choices. In other words, it prevents us from reacting and allows us to respond to the situation with more calmness and clarity. That is the power of mindfulness.
In its formal practice, it is a form of meditation. (There are many forms of meditation.) Often meditation, mindfulness and awareness might be used interchangeably. We can all cultivate this skill of mindful awareness.
What it’s NOT
Stress is caused by being 'here' but wanting to be ‘there’. - Eckhart Tolle
It’s not a religion. It's not “tuning out.” It’s not going to make us self-centred. Instead, it allows us to know our true self better and hold that non-judgemental space for those with whom we interact.
It also doesn’t mean we are resigned to how life is and cannot act upon it. Instead, it gives us power from being aware of “what is” to then choosing our next response instead of reacting. So, for example, imagine waiting in line at the grocery store. We are in a hurry, and the person ahead of us now has all these items that need price checking. Instead of stewing there in anger and wanting the line to move faster (because its not going to, no matter how angry we get), we could become aware, without judging or getting carried away with how there are never enough cashiers. We could notice that we are stressed, frustrated, angry, tense, shooting darts at the person in front of us AND that this is the situation right now. Then we end up with the space to realize: I could listen to that podcast I’ve been meaning to listen to, or I could practice the mindfulness breathing now. We may even notice: "Hey look! Cashier number 8 is free!" By doing this, our body also goes from stress mode to relaxation mode, and this is good! But if we had just stewed and fumed about the situation, wanting it to be different, we likely wouldn’t have come up with any of those choices to improve the situation.
Jon Kabat-Zinn was one of the pioneers who brought mindfulness to North America. With a Ph.D. in Molecular Biology from MIT, he understood that to bring part of an eastern tradition to the west and allow people to see its benefits, required some scientific convincing. So he created the secular version of the eastern tradition that could be studied reproducibly. This is how the Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) program came about in 1979. He established the Centre for Mindfulness in Medicine, Healthcare and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School and spearheaded much of the research in this field of mindfulness. Hundreds of studies and multiple elite university centres later, we now have evidence of the benefits of this practice to overall health and wellbeing.
How To Practice It
Formal practice
Formal practices involve scheduling a time and place for meditation (such as breath meditation, body scan or walking meditation) or mindful movement practices such as yoga, tai chi or qigong. Think of a time in your day when you can set aside even just 5 -10 minutes for formal practice. Research shows that the benefits of mindfulness are best observed with daily practice. Just doing a few minutes is beneficial. Try this Qigong practice today!
Informal practice
Informal practices can be many things from focusing on the steps we take as we walk, to taking in the scenery, sites and sounds around us when we are in nature and so on. It just means bringing the awareness to what we are doing in the present moment. And it can be in “bite-size” moments that last a few seconds to a few minutes or however long you like. Below is a list of what I call “Mindful Moments” Try these practices or come up with your own. The idea is to sprinkle your day with these moments of awareness.
Mindful Shower
When you take your morning shower, be really present. Engage all the senses and feel the water, smell the soap, feel the suds listen to the sound around you. “Know” you are in the shower instead of working on your to-do list for the day or rehearsing for your presentation.
Grounding practice
Before going into your next meeting, seeing your next client, making that next phone call, or even before entering your home at the end of the day, take 1 minute to place your hands on your abdomen and focus on your breath. Notice how your breath feels in your body, without changing it or judging or labelling it. Just notice it. It will improve your interaction and bring you to a calmer mindset.
Mindful eating
Take at least the first bite of each meal mindfully, engaging all your senses. See all the colours and textures. Smell the fragrance of spices and herbs. Feel the textures, and tastes as you take your first mouthful. Notice what goes on in your body as you chew that first bite allowing it to linger in your mouth before swallowing.
What It Does
The science behind mindfulness (and there is a lot of it!) has shown benefit in many areas. However, when practicing mindfulness, the idea is not to get to some type of “goal.” The idea is to allow the practice itself to be the “goal.” However, it is often easier to be convinced to try something when you know the benefits!
Mindfulness benefits:
Promote coping
May Increase positive emotions
Reduce depression and anxiety
Reduce stress,
Help manage pain,
Improve psoriasis (seen in some of Jon Kabat-Zinn’s early research)
Boost the immune system
Increase telomerase activity (related to our DNA) which may be linked to longevity
Change our gene expression (that is which of our genes are expressed or not!)
Change how our brains look and function (seen in imaging studies using techniques such as MRI to view brains before and after a period of meditation) including areas for memory and emotional regulation allowing us to:
respond better to stress
improve working memory
be more self-aware
be more attentive
be more resilient
be more empathetic, kind and optimistic, compassionate
Phew! In other words, mindfulness may help us to recover from stress quicker, improve our interactions with others and be healthier and be happier! So what are you waiting for?
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